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Sometimes we feel like someone's spiritual growth hinges on how well we speak to them, but it's a mistake to confuse our role in someone's faith in Christ with God's.

Key Points:

  • Your role is to speak the truth in love.
  • Their role is to respond to truth.
  • God’s role is to work within people’s hearts.

Quote This:

Ephesians 4:15 Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church.

See Also: Communication, Discipleship, Mentoring

Talk About It
  1. What is your initial reaction to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Do you find it hard to trust God to play his part? Why or why not?
  3. What happens when we try to play God’s part in a discipleship relationship?
  4. Read Ephesians 4:15. What are some ways we try to manipulate another person’s response to truth? What happens to the relationship when we do that?
  5. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?