The Bible calls Christians to make peace, and sometimes that means we need to enter the conflict of others.
Talking Points:
- There will always be some people for whom reconciliation is difficult because of their family history or other factors. We should be patient with these people. 1 Thessalonians 5:14
- As leaders in the church, we should intervene in interpersonal conflict using wisdom and caution. Before acting, determine the severity of the issue, how long standing the issue and what is the emotional health of those involved. Galatians 6:1
- In Christ, we are indeed our brother’s keeper. Our goal should be to help others grow because that’s the way love thinks and acts. James 5:19-20
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Share a time when you tried to be a peacemaker in someone’s conflict. What happened?
- Read 1 Thessalonians 5:14. In your own words, what is Paul saying here. How have you grown impatient with someone’s brokenness or unhealthiness?
- Read Matthew 6:14. Do you think this verse should be taken literally? Explain.
- How would you respond if someone said they would never forgive another person? Would you step in on this grudge? Explain.
- Read James 5:19-20. How does this impact your readiness to engage in conflict?
- Why are questions important to resolving conflict? What can happen if you don’t gain insight before acting?
- How much wisdom should you seek from others before entering into a conflict to become a peacemaker? When does it turn into gossip?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
