Agape love is not merely something God does, it is the heart behind everything he does. As we abide in Christ, this becomes true of us.

Talking Points:

  • Agape love is unconditional, self-sacrificial love. It’s the highest form of love, originating from God himself. John 21:15-17, 1 John 4:8, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
  • Agape love is always displayed in action. God’s agape love is displayed most clearly on the cross. 1 John 4:9-10
  • Agape love calls us to love others like Christ loved us. When we love one another, the invisible God reveals Himself to the world. John 1:18, 1 John 4:19, John 15:12-13
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Share about a person who loves well in your life. What are the qualities they embody that make their love special?
  3. Read John 21:15-17. What has your understanding been of why Jesus repeats his question to Peter three times?
  4. Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. Review the list. Which ones are toughest for you? How do you see love described as action from Paul’s description of love?
  5. Read 1 John 4:9-10. How do the ideas of incarnation and atonement differ from any other religion? Reflect on the statement, “Agape is rooted in the goodness of the giver, not in the worthiness of the receiver.” Why is this idea so significant? Who in your life needs to hear this?
  6. Read 1 John 4:19 and John 15:12-13. How do you think Christians are doing at demonstrating agape love today? What are some things Christians should be doing to show this self-sacrificial love to others?
  7. How can you empty yourself for the good of someone else?
  8. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?