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You can’t make decisions for your spouse, but what if you're the only one who wants to fight for your marriage?

Key Points:

  • Be honest with yourself.
  • Communicate your heart to your spouse.
  • Give your spouse space to think.
  • Shift your focus to things you can control.
  • Don’t lash out at your spouse.

Quote This:

Romans 12:17-18 Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.

Talk About It
  1. What is your initial reaction to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. How have you contributed to the problems in the marriage? How can you begin to work on those things?
  3. Have you talked with your spouse about your desire to save the marriage? Explain.
  4. How has your spouse reacted to your desire to save the marriage?
  5. Read Romans 12:17-18. What are some productive things you can do to avoid getting bitter and angry?
  6. Write a personal action step based on this conversation.