Watch the video above and talk about it with a group or mentor. Learn more.
Jeff and Alyssa share about one of the biggest keys to having a successful marriage and the answer might surprise you. It’s not a skill to acquire but about seeking wisdom from a more experienced couple.
Talking Points:
- Marriages shouldn’t be on an island. We should have people around us who can speak wisdom into your marriage.
- Marriage mentors are simply an older couple who is further along in the journey of marriage who can offer godly counsel and wisdom.
- Don’t wait for someone to approach you. Spend time praying and asking God to bring a couple into your life or find a couple at your church that you respect and invite them to mentor you.
- Marriage mentors are especially helpful when you are facing a conflict that you are unable to resolve on your own. They can offer guidance, not based on choosing sides, but on what’s in the best interest of both parties.
Talk About It
- Watch the video together or invite someone to summarize the topic.
- What is your initial reaction to this video? Do you disagree with any of it? What jumped out at you?
- Who are some people from whom you’ve sought counsel in your life? Why do you trust their perspective?
- What are the benefits to seeking counsel from outside sources?
- What are some of the bigger issues that you’re currently struggling with in your marriage? How could a marriage mentor couple help you with those issues?
- What are some action steps you can take to find a marriage mentor?
- Write a personal action step based on this conversation.
