Have you endured a tough situation and wondered why God wasn't there to help you?

Talking Points:

  • Let go of your guilt over being angry with God. He knows your heart and he understands this is a common human feeling. Release your emotions to him to begin healing. 
  • Trials in life are God’s way of testing us. These are meant to help our faith grow stronger as we come to rely on him. 1 Peter 1:7
  • Resolve to obey God in spite of your trials and tests. Don’t give up on God. He will never give up on you. Romans 5:3-5
  • Remind yourself of God’s power. Think of all the stories in the Bible that show his faithfulness to his children. He will be faithful to you.
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Have you ever been angry with God? Why did you feel he had let you down?
  3. Share a time you went through a trial and saw God use it for your good.
  4. Who is someone in your life who went through hard trials and remained faithful to God? What did they do to work through their feelings?
  5. Who is someone in your life who went through hard trials and gave up on their faith? Did that make their situation any better?
  6. Read John 16:33. How does knowing that Jesus overcame the world help us through trials and hardships?
  7. Read 1 Peter 1:7.  Why do you think Peter uses the symbolism of refining gold through a fire in relation to our trials? What other symbols make a good analogy?
  8. Read Romans 5:3-5. What does this passage say about the benefits of trials? How does God help us through them?
  9. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?