Oftentimes pastors see negative patterns cropping up in their congregations. Here, pastors Tom and Bryan let men know how they should be living as followers of Jesus.
Talking Points:
- Be men. God has made women to be nurturers and men to be protectors and providers. 1 Timothy 6:12
- Lead your family. Men are called to be the spiritual leaders – the “pastors” – in the home. Deuteronomy 6:6-7
- Put God first in your finances. Wherever you invest your money, that’s what you’ll fall in love with. Matthew 6:21
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Men are not being spiritual leaders at home, and men are not trusting God with their finances. Why are these some of the most important issue for men to address?
- How would you rate yourself as the spiritual leader of your home? Why do you score yourself this way?
- How would you score your wife on this scale? Why?
- What are some ways in which you are not leading well and could use some guidance? Are you willing to seek guidance?
- What do you foresee happening if you don’t undergo some course correction in leading at home?
- Who are some men who could mentor you in being a better leader and spiritual head at home?
- Read Matthew 6:19-21 and Matthew 6:24-25. Do you live a life that trusts and honors God with your finances? What does this practically look like? What are some ways you could be more faithful and trusting toward God in this area of life?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
