Workplace affairs can sneak up on any good man, and they destroy marriages and families. Ask these three questions if you’re on the edge of an affair.
Talking Points:
- Workplace affairs can sneak up on any good man, and they destroy marriages and families. Use these three questions and ask yourself before it’s too late. Proverbs 5:7-9
- Do I look forward to my appointments with another woman?
- Do I seek to meet her in a more casual environment?
- Do I prefer that others don’t know about my meetings with her?
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Share a time you saw a workplace affair destroy another man’s marriage. Did you see it coming? Did you do anything about it?
- Identify the women at work, church, or elsewhere who are attractive to you? Have you ever told anyone about it? When does an innocent attraction turn into something dangerous?
- Have you ever looked forward to an appointment with an attractive woman at work or elsewhere? Are you currently in that situation? What can you do about it to keep it from becoming a problem?
- Have you ever sought to meet a woman in a more casual environment outside of work or church? Did you know in your heart that you were playing with fire? What happened in the end?
- Have you ever met secretly with a woman? What happened?
- Read Proverbs 5:7-9 and 2 Timothy 2:22. What do these verses say we should do in response to temptation? What action steps do you need to take this week in order to be a man of honor?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
