To engage someone in a mentoring relationship, try using this simple acronym to break the ice.
Talking Points:
- Use this acronym to help you engage someone in a conversation.
- Family. Ask questions about family.
- Occupation. Ask about their job and if they like it.
- Recreation. Ask about hobbies and the things they do to relax and have fun.
- Message. Get to what you hope to accomplish with this person and invite them into a mentoring relationship.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Rate yourself on a scale from 1-10 your level of comfort with engaging strangers.(1 being terrified and 10 being easy). Explain.
- Why is it hard to engage people we don’t know very well? What are some benefits to pushing yourself out of your comfort zone?
- Of the 4 letters, which is easiest for you to talk about? Explain.
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
