Healthy emotions and relational skills lead to a good life. But the foundation of it all is character.

Talking Points:

  • An honorable person believes in doing the right thing. They put the good of others above their own preferences. Romans 12:10, Matthew 19:19, Philippians 4:8 
  • Acting with integrity means being one and the same person everywhere you are. It’s about being real without being a real jerk. Proverbs 11:3
  • A humble person doesn’t suffer from self-importance. They acknowledge their imperfections and look to serve others. Philippians 2:1-8
Discussion Questions:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Share about a person who you believe acts in honorable ways. How have you determined that their actions are honorable?
  3. Share about a person who you believe has acted dishonorably? How did you determine that?
  4. Read Romans 12:10, Matthew 19:19 and Philippians 4:8. Identify what these passages say about honor and what honor should look like. How do you need to grow in your ability to act honorably?
  5. Define integrity in your own words. How do you respond to a two-faced person? Why is this type of person hard to trust?
  6. Read Proverbs 11:3. Evaluate yourself. Do you act differently in certain settings and why? How can a lack of integrity destroy relationships?
  7. In your opinion, can you be authentic while holding back some of your true thoughts for the sake of another? Explain.
  8. Read Philippians 2:1-8. How did Jesus model humility for us? How can you look to elevate other voices in your sphere of influence?
  9. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?