Commandment #5 is singled out by God for the blessings that it brings to the individual, the family, and society.

Talking Points:

  • When kids honor their parents they honor God’s design for healthy families, which are the building block for a functioning society. Exodus 20:12
  • Honoring your parents is more than just obeying them in your childhood. It’s about your attitude toward them from beginning to end. Ephesians 6:1-3 1 Timothy 5:8
  • God promises to bless those who honor their parents. Submitting to godly wisdom makes for a rich and satisfying life.
Discussion Questions:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Describe your family dynamic growing up. What were some annoying or quirky rules your parents had for you?
  3. What did you learn about following rules and listening to authority from your parents? How has that impacted you as an adult?
  4. In your opinion, how do healthy families make a stronger society?
  5. Read Exodus 20:12. What do you think it means to honor your parents? Is there a difference between obeying and honoring? Explain.
  6. Read Ephesians 6:1-3. Identify all that this passage says about kids and parents. What is the promise and why does obedience lead to a long life?
  7. Read 1 Timothy 5:8. How does this verse challenge you? How do you hope your kids interpret this verse when you’re older and in need?
  8. Read Colossians 3:20. Are we supposed to honor parents even if they have really wounded or hurt us? Is there a way to honor our parents without having a great relationship?
  9. Take an honest assessment by asking these 3 questions of yourself: Would your parents say that you honor them? Would your kids say you are living honorably? How can you improve in how you honor your parents?
  10. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?

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