Escape addiction by fighting for the joy in Christ that is superior to the fleeting pleasure of pornography.

Talking Points:

  • The solution to pornography is not to say “No” out of duty. This will certainly fail. The fight for a superior pleasure realizes that my pleasure will actually increase if I don’t go to pornography.
  • The battle can be won. God can enable you to sit in front of a computer and not go to pornographic sites. You can think of your King Jesus and be faithful. Matthew 5:8
  • The main place to fight the battle isn’t in a list of “do’s and don’ts”. It is by fighting for a joy that is superior than the quick surge that comes from pornography. Matthew 5:28-30
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. How many people do you know of who struggle actively with pornography? Do you struggle?
  3. What have you tried to do in the past to escape the lure of pornography? Did it work? For how long?
  4. “For the love of your future/current spouse, say ‘no’ to pornography.” Explain this statement.
  5. “The solution to the pornography problem is not duty… but fighting for the superior pleasure of Christ.” Explain this statement.
  6. Read Philippians 4:8 How could thinking this way help a person to escape the pull of pornography?
  7. Read Matthew 5:28-30 Is there anything in your life that you need to remove in order to free yourself from pornography?
  8. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?