It’s easy to point out when someone else is doing everything wrong - but the reality is we aren’t perfect either.
Talking Points:
- Our words have the power to bring life or death – to build others up or tear them down. Proverbs 18:21
- Positive words encourage others, builds trust and promotes growth. Critical words tear others down, depletes trust and creates enmity and stunts growth. Proverbs 16:24, James 3:6, Ephesians 4:29
- Critical words come from a hardened heart. Luke 6:45
- Stop being critical in three practical steps:
- Find two positives.
- Be empathetic. Galatians 6:2
- Recognize your failings. Colossians 3:12
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Share a time someone’s words really encouraged you. Share a time someone’s words really hurt you.
- Are there certain people or situations that causes you to struggle more with being critical? Explain.
- Read Proverbs 18:21 What do you think of Solomon’s description of the power of the tongue?
- Why do you think it’s so easy to be critical of others? How do you define a “critical spirit”?
- Read Luke 6:45. Put this verse in your own words. Describe what a hardened heart looks like.
- Of the three steps, which one is toughest for you to implement? Walk through how each step could change your hardened heart to a tender heart.
- Read Galatians 6:2 and Colossians 3:12. What are these verses saying about our responsibility? How do these verses challenge you?
- Read Ephesians 4:29. How will you start living out this verse at home, at work, in the community, at church?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
