Relational stress is inevitable because we're all imperfect, but God's perfect love is the solution.
Talking Points:
- Loving people – warts and all, apparently – is the second most important thing we can do, next to loving God. This means that God does not let us opt out of relational stress. We don’t have to like people, but we are commanded to love people. Matthew 22:37-40
- Love is selfless and sacrificial and that can be hard to do when you’re trying to love someone who is selfish and demanding. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
- The ungodly are free to bail on their relationships when it gets too stressful. The godly are called to settle in for the long haul, allowing their love for God to transform them into more loving people. 1 John 4:17-19
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Read Matthew 22:37-39. How does this sum up the entire teaching of the Bible, Old Testament and New?
- Why is loving someone more selfless than liking someone? Give an example.
- Read 1 Corinthians 13. Which item in the list is your strongest point? Which is your weakest?
- If you’re a Christian, how has your love grown over the years? Give an example.
- Read 1 John 4:17-19. In you own words, explain how perfect love outweighs fear and anxiety.
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
