The Christian community should look different than other social groups because of the radical reality of grace. Our reflex response to grace is to pay it forward.

Talking Points:

  • It’s hypocritical to receive grace and not to give it. Christians should treat others the way they’ve been treated by God. Romans 15:7, Matthew 18:32-33
  • Giving grace helps others flourish and grow. Grace unlocks emotional and relational health. James 5:16, Luke 18:9-14
  • Some believers miss the grace of God and end up poisoning the church. The church and the world needs more grace-givers. Hebrews 12:15
Discussion Questions:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Talk about a time when a Christian extended great grace to you. What happened? Share a time you were gracious toward someone else. How did that impact the relationship?
  3. Read Romans 15:7. What does it mean in practice to “accept each other just as Christ has accepted you”? Give examples.
  4. Read James 5:16 and Matthew 18:32-33. How does a grace filled environment among Christians help people to flourish and grow in their faith? How does grace work when someone needs to be confronted or corrected?
  5. What would a grace-filled environment look like in a marriage? In a family?
  6. Read Hebrews 12:15. What does this verse present as the opposite of grace? Explain. 
  7. What kind of effects does a grace-less attitude have on other Christians?
  8. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?


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