How do you talk to your kids about gender identity in a world that tells everyone to follow their hearts?
Talking Points:
- Sexuality and gender identity are no longer “one way or the other” conversations. It is now an issue up for debate in the minds of many.
- Having a biblical stance on issues of sexuality and gender identity does not and should not mean compassion and concern are thrown out the window in favor of cold, hard conviction. Christian parents holding a biblical worldview can be both clear and compassionate when parenting their children through the ages when sexuality move to the forefront. 2 Timothy 3:16-17
- Asking good questions is a helpful strategy for engaging your kids on tough topics. Consider using the “three L’s” – listen, love, lead. Listen to your kids by engaging them in continual conversation. Provide them clear, loving, biblical guidance during their formative years. Proverbs 22:6, Psalm 139:13-16
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Do you know someone or have you yourself experienced struggles pertaining to sexuality or sexual identity? Share as you are comfortable or skip to the next question.
- Read 2 Timothy 3:16-17. What does the Bible do for us? Why is it important to have a framework for how to discuss all sorts of cultural issues with your kids?
- Read Psalm 139:13-16. How does this passage encourage you as a parent? How can it be encouraging to your kids who may be struggling with their identity?
- Read Proverbs 22:6. According to this verse, what role do parents play in raising their children – particularly as it relates to sexuality? Explain.
- How can you listen to, love, and lead your kids when it comes to this topic? Give some examples.
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
