Watch the video above and talk about it with a group or mentor. Learn more.

If you want to help your kids pursue God, you will want to parent your kids with God’s design in mind.

Key Points:

  • A proverb is not a promise but a pithy saying with wisdom attached to it. In other words, though it might often times be true, it isn’t an absolute.
  • Parents, you are the spiritual trainers of your kids. You have to “train them up” in the way of the Lord if you want them to follow him.
  • Parents, pay attention to the unique attributes and abilities each of your kids have and find ways to train them that fits their personality. 
  • Model in your own life what you hope to see in your kids’ lives.

Quote This:

Proverbs 22:6 (AMPC) Train up a child in the way he should go [and in keeping with his individual gift or bent], and when he is old he will not depart from it.

Talk About It
  1. What is one insight that jumped out at you from watching the video?
  2. What is the difference between a proverb and a promise? Why is this distinction important? 
  3. What are some things the make parenting so challenging?
  4. Read 1 Timothy 4:8. Describe some qualities of an excellent personal trainer and then share how those same qualities could benefit your parenting. How can you start training your kids towards godliness?
  5. Read Proverbs 22:6 and share in what ways each of your kids are different. How will you need to adjust your approach with each one?
  6. If the ultimate goal of parenting is to help your kids pursue God, then why is it important for you to model what you want for your kids?
  7. If you are totally honest, what are you currently modeling for your kids spiritually at this time in their lives?
  8. Write a personal action step based on this conversation.