Sexual purity is harder than ever to pursue today. Here are two lists you should seriously keep.

Talking Points:

  • The Bible doesn’t teach us to fight sexual sin. It commands us to flee it. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20
  • Make a “Stop” list: Stop surfing websites that are problematic for you, stop “friending” people who are tempting to you, stop watching movies/shows that awaken lust in you. Song of Songs 2:7
  • Make a “Do” list: Do read your Bible, pray more, and seek connection with people who will help you to honor God in your life. Matthew 12:43-45
  • Getting rid of bad habits can leave a dangerous void in your daily life. Be sure to intentionally replace the bad with the good.
Discussion Questions:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. What do you notice has changed in our culture as it pertains to sex and entertainment. How have you struggled with sexual purity in the past?
  3. Read 1 Corinthians 6:18-20. Why do you think Paul chose the word “flee” rather than “avoid”? What does it mean to you to flee something?
  4. Review the “Stop” list. Why are those bad habits? What are some of your bad habits that you need to add to this list?
  5. Review the “Do” list. How are you doing in building your relationship with God? Why is it important to add good habits, not just removing bad habits?
  6. Read Matthew 12:43-45. Put this passage in your own words. How has your struggle with sexual purity looked liked this picture? What more do you need to do to stop repeating old patterns?
  7. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?