Is It a Sin?

It's a question many Christians find asking themselves on a day to day basis. Sometimes the answer is clear and easy, but other times it might seem to be a little more of a 'gray area'.

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Is it a Sin to Drink Alcohol?

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Today we’re starting a new series called, “Is it a sin?”  We’re looking at behaviors and habits that I would think most people in the church have historically looked upon as sinful.  As always, we want to know what the Bible says about it, not just what tradition says.  Are they sinful? Are they always sinful, sometimes sinful?  If they’re sometimes sinful, what makes them that way sometimes but not at other times?  Today’s topic – drinking alcohol.    

There is no place in scripture that makes a blanket statement forbidding everyone from drinking alcohol.  Solomon encouraged his readers to drink their wine with a happy heart.  Paul encouraged Timothy to drink a little wine for the sake of his stomach.  

Ecclesiastes 9:7 So go ahead. Eat your food with joy, and drink your wine with a happy heart, for God approves of this! 

1 Timothy 5:23 Don’t drink only water. You ought to drink a little wine for the sake of your stomach because you are sick so often.

  • Clearly there is a medicinal purpose that Paul has in mind, but he’s still encouraging Timothy to drink wine.  It’s widely believed that the wine in Jesus’  time was weaker and Jews often diluted it with water. But it’s still wine. 

Isaiah 25:6 In Jerusalem, the Lord of Heaven’s Armies will spread a wonderful feast for all the people of the world. It will be a delicious banquet with clear, well-aged wine and choice meat.

  • Jesus drank wine at the Passover meal.  Jesus was perfect, sinless. 
  • Jesus said he wouldn’t drink from the vine until he drank it anew in the kingdom of heaven.  

Drunkenness 

Drunkenness is clearly a sin.  The bible is not ambiguous about it. In addition to its prohibition in Scripture, we see the consequences of drunkenness can be brutal. 

Proverbs 23:20-21 Do not carouse with drunkards or feast with gluttons, 21 for they are on their way to poverty,  and too much sleep clothes them in rags.

Proverbs 20:1 Wine produces mockers; alcohol leads to brawls. Those led astray by drink cannot be wise.

  • Those led astray can not be wise. 

1 Corinthians 6:9-10 Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, 10 or are thieves, or greedy people, or drunkards, or are abusive, or cheat people—none of these will inherit the Kingdom of God.

Consequences of drunkenness can be brutal

  • Jacob married Leah instead of Rachel.  Wives were veiled during the ceremony. Scripture says Laban prepared a great feast. Wine certainly would have been present.  I think this had to play a role in Jacob not knowing it was Leah until in the morning. 
  • Lot sleeping with his daughters 

Drinking when it’s against man’s law

  • Underage
  • Open container law

Even if you stop short of getting drunk, if you have to have a drink to make it through the day, or if alcohol is your “go to” when dealing with stress or frustration, that is sinful. 

1 Corinthians 6:12 You say, “I am allowed to do anything”—but not everything is good for you. And even though “I am allowed to do anything,” I must not become a slave to anything.

  • Alcohol isn’t unique – anything that controls would be sinful – coffee, sugar, social media.  We are told not to be a slave to anything.  Self control is one of the fruits of the Spirit.  

Psalm 91:1-4 Those who live in the shelter of the Most High will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty.2 This I declare about the Lord:He alone is my refuge, my place of safety; he is my God, and I trust him. 3 For he will rescue you from every trap and protect you from deadly disease. He will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings.  His faithful promises are your armor and protection.

There are a lot of situations where drinking alcohol might be sinful, and at the very least, it would be unwise

  • You have a tendency towards addictive behavior.
  • Your spouse prefers you not drink. 
    • Ephesians 5 – we’re called to love our wives like Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.  
  • You’re struggling financially or in debt. 
  • Church leaders are called to be above reproach 1 Timothy 3:2

Talking Points:
  • There is no place in scripture that makes a blanket statement forbidding someone from drinking alcohol.  Solomon encouraged his readers to drink their wine with a happy heart (Ecclesiastes 9:7).  Paul encouraged Timothy to drink a little wine for the sake of his stomach.  1 Timothy 5:23
  • Drunkenness is clearly a sin.  The bible is not ambiguous about it. In addition to its prohibition in Scripture, we see the consequences of drunkenness can be brutal. Proverbs 23:20-21
  • Even if you stop short of getting drunk, if you have to have a drink to make it through the day, or if alcohol is your “go to” when dealing with stress or frustration, that is sinful. 1 Corinthians 6:12 
  • There are a lot of situations where drinking alcohol might be sinful, and at the very least, it would be unwise. 1 Timothy 3:2
Discussion:
  1. Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
  2. Before listening to the podcast, how would you have answered the question: “is it a sin to drink alcohol”? 
  3. Growing up, what were you taught about alcohol? Was it right? Wrong?
  4. Read Proverbs 20:1. How have you seen alcohol negatively affect someone’s life?
  5. How can you lovingly help someone who is struggling with alcohol? What are some things you should not do?
  6. Regardless of the day you had, using alcohol as a vice is sinful. What are some effective alternative solutions that would actually honor God?
  7. Why is it important to regard your spouse in this matter, even if you don’t struggle with alcohol addiction?

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Is it a Sin to Smoke Tobacco or Marijuana?

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Welcome back to our “Is it a Sin” series where we’re taking a look at different habits that if you grew up in the church, you may have always looked upon as sinful. 

It’s Sinful When…

You’re addicted

1 Corinthians 6:12 You say, “I am allowed to do anything”—but not everything is good for you. And even though “I am allowed to do anything,” I must not become a slave to anything.

  • Physical addiction, but also do you need it to get through the day or through a stressful situation?  Is it your go-to when you’re stressed out? 

You’re under age

1 Peter 2:13 For the Lord’s sake, submit to all human authority—whether the king as head of state, 14 or the officials he has appointed. For the king has sent them to punish those who do wrong and to honor those who do right.

  • We’re called to submit to those in authority unless they ask us to do something that goes against God’s authority. You may not like the laws, You might even be able to argue that the laws aren’t logical, but that’s not the point. 

You’re Pregnant 

  •  If you smoke while you are pregnant you are at increased risk of a wide range of problems, including miscarriage and premature labor.
  • Babies whose mothers smoke during pregnancy are at higher risk of sudden unexpected death in infancy (SUDI), having weaker lungs and having an unhealthy low birth weight.
  • Second hand smoke around children 

Your wife doesn’t want you to smoke

Ephesians 5:25  For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word.

The Body is a Temple

  • If you’re going to argue that smoking a single cigarette, pipe, or cigar is sinful because it’s harmful to your body and your body is a temple, that’s fine.  But you need to be consistent. Do you drink diet soda?  Artificial sweeteners have been identified as leading to higher risk of cancer.  Do you eat processed foods?  Are you overweight? 

Marijuana 

1 Peter 5:8 “Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.”

1 Peter 1:13 “So prepare your minds for action and exercise self-control. Put all your hope in the gracious salvation that will come to you when Jesus Christ is revealed to the world.”

  • Peter knew the agony of failure.  He knew what it was like to have the mindset that “There’s no way I can fail.  I’m strong enough. I know I’ll be able to handle it.”  Only to have it all come crashing down. I know what it’s like to fail.  You’ve got to prepare your minds and exercise self control. 

1 Corinthians 16:13-14 “Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong. And do everything with love.”

Marijuana use directly affects brain function — specifically the parts of the brain responsible for memory, learning, attention, decision-making, coordination, emotions, and reaction time. 1,2

What are the short-term effects of marijuana on the brain?

Recent marijuana use (defined as within 24 hours) in youth and adults has an immediate impact on thinking, attention, memory, coordination, movement, and time perception.1

What are the long-term effects of marijuana on the brain?

Marijuana affects brain development. Developing brains, such as those in babies, children, and teenagers, are especially susceptible to the harmful effects of marijuana and tetrahydrocannabinol (THC).1,2 Although scientists are still learning about the effects of marijuana on developing brains, studies suggest that marijuana use by mothers during pregnancy could be linked to problems with attention, memory, problem-solving skills, and behavior in their children.3-9

Using marijuana before age 18 may affect how the brain builds connections for functions like attention, memory, and learning.10 Marijuana’s effects on attention, memory, and learning may last a long time or even be permanent,11 but more research is needed to fully understand these effects. Youth who use marijuana may not do as well in school and may have trouble remembering things.1,6,12,13

Mental Health

Marijuana use, especially frequently (daily or nearly daily) and in high doses, can cause disorientation and sometimes unpleasant thoughts or feelings of anxiety and paranoia.1

People who use marijuana are more likely to develop temporary psychosis (not knowing what is real, hallucinations, and paranoia) and long-lasting mental disorders, including schizophrenia (a type of mental illness where people might see or hear things that are not really there).2 The association between marijuana and schizophrenia is stronger in people who start using marijuana at an earlier age and use marijuana more frequently.

Marijuana use has also been linked to depression; social anxiety; and thoughts of suicide, suicide attempts, and suicide.

Jesus refused the wine mixed with myrrh during his crucifixion. 

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If you’re feeling conviction about it, even if you are only smoking occasionally, you need to submit to the Spirit.

Talking Points:
  • Today we’re continuing our “Is it a Sin?” series. We’re taking a look at different habits that if you grew up in the church, you may have always looked upon as sinful. We’re using the word of the Lord to help us answer the question: “is it a sin to smoke tobacco or marijuana?”
  • There is a clear charge in scripture to be free from addiction.  If you’re addicted to tobacco, it’s sinful. 
  • If your perspective is that any smoking is sinful because it’s harmful to your body and your body is a temple, you need to be consistent in applying that to other areas of your life, like diet and exercise.  
  • We are called to be on guard, alert, and of sober mind.  Marijuana use dulls our senses, impairs our decision making, and limits our attention.  This goes against God’s calling on our lives, particularly for us as men.
Discussion:
  1. Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
  2. Before listening to the podcast, how would you have answered the question: “is it a sin to smoke tobacco or marijuana?”
  3. When is the first time you can remember being around someone who smoked? How did it make you feel then?
  4. Many men see smoking cigars or pipes as a sign of “manliness” or even sometimes wealth. With the context of the podcast fresh in your mind, how do you think we as Christians should view tobacco smoking?
  5. Read 1 Peter 2:13. As marijuana laws become less and less strict, how should a Christian approach someone who smokes marijuana even if it’s not illegal? Do you feel we should help them move against it? Why or why not?
  6. Read 1 Corinthians 6:12. What are some practical steps we can take to receive the Lord’s freedom from addiction?

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Is it a Sin to Gamble?

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We’re in our third installment of the “Is it a sin” series.  We’ve looked at drinking alcohol. We’ve looked at tobacco and marijuana use, and today, we’re looking at gambling.  Is it a sin to gamble?  What does the Bible say about it?  

It’s Not Black and White

There is no explicit command in the Bible that says gambling is a sin. That doesn’t, however, mean that it isn’t sinful. Sin is not always a matter of doing something we shouldn’t, it’s also not doing something we should. 

James 4:17 “Remember, it is sin to know what you ought to do and then not do it.”

  • Sins of omission vs. sins of commission 
  • Context of chapter 4 – jealous of what others have, not content with what we have, making business plans without considering God’s plan, friendship with the world makes us enemies of God 
  • Core Value – We give up things we love for things we love more. 

Slow and Steady Wins the Race

The Bible has much to say about trying to get rich quickly. Those who build wealth slowly and steadily are more likely to manage it well than those who come into money quickly. Proverbs 13:11, Proverbs 21:5 

Proverbs 13:11 “Wealth gained hastily will dwindle, but whoever gathers little by little will increase it.“

Proverbs 21:5 “The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.” 

  • Nearly one-third of lottery winners eventually go bankrupt within three to five years, which is more likely than the average American, according to the Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards.Jul 19, 2023
  • 90% of retail options traders lose money, 5.4 billion dollars lost in 12 month period ending March 2022. 
  • Network marketing – covetousness, lack of contentment, “dream building” 

Gambling is Addictive 

We’re commanded in scripture not to be controlled by anything. Gambling can be highly addictive.  

1 Corinthians 6:12 “You say, ‘I am allowed to do anything’—but not everything is good for you. And even though ‘I am allowed to do anything,’ I must not become a slave to anything.”

  • Problem gamblers often lie about or hide their gambling, which can make it difficult for loved ones to recognize. The best prevalence research shows that somewhere between 1% and 2% of the U.S. adult population, or 2 to 4 million adults, will experience a gambling disorder in their lifetime.Feb 8, 2023
  • Even when you’re losing while you’re gambling, your body is still producing adrenalin and endorphins,” he says.
  • Casinos thrive on other addictive behaviors – alcoholism, lust.  Almost every place you see a lot of gambling activity, you’ll see prostitution, strip clubs, etc.  

Cause a Brother to Stumble 

It’s not just yourself you have to be concerned about.  If you’re playing cards or betting over a round of golf, you also have to be aware of the person you’re gambling against.  Is it a sin for them? 

Romans 14:13-14 “Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother. 14 I know and am persuaded in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself, but it is unclean for anyone who thinks it unclean.”

  • Even if it isn’t an issue for you, is it an issue for them? 
  • The goal isn’t to see how close we can get to the line before sinning.  It is how we can glorify God and be a light in the world.   

Talking Points:
  • There is no explicit command in the Bible that says gambling is a sin. That doesn’t, however, mean that it isn’t sinful. Sin is not always a matter of doing something we shouldn’t, it’s also not doing something we should.  James 4:17 
  • The Bible has much to say about trying to get rich quickly. Those who build wealth slowly and steadily are more likely to manage it well than those who come into money quickly. Proverbs 13:11, Proverbs 21:5 
  • We’re commanded in scripture not to be controlled by anything. Gambling can be highly addictive.  1 Corinthians 6:12 
  • It’s not just yourself you have to be concerned about.  If you’re playing cards or betting over a round of golf, you also have to be aware of the person you’re gambling against.  Is it a sin for them? Romans 14:13-14
Discussion:
  1. Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
  2. Before listening to the podcast, how would you have answered the question: “is it a sin to gamble?”
  3. Read James 4:17. How does this verse apply to today’s topic?
  4. The Bible warns us against envying our neighbors. What are some ways that jealousy can ruin a relationship?
  5. Read Proverbs 21:5. The statistics in the podcast seem to prove this verse. Why is it important to follow this verse when it comes to financial gain? What are the practical downsides of haste for wealth?
  6. Would you or have you ever indulged in a form of gambling? Even if you’re not addicted, why might it be a good idea to be wary?
  7. What are some ways you can help someone who might be addicted to gambling, and how does that differ from other addictions (alcohol, drugs, etc.)? How does it look similar?

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Is it a Sin to Watch an R Rated Movie?

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Welcome to the fourth and final installment of our “Is it a sin” series.  We’ve been looking at behaviors like smoking, drinking, and gambling that have been identified as sinful in many churches for many decades and we’re asking if the Bible says they’re sinful. Today, we’re talking about watching R rated movies.  You may be wondering why we’re even having this conversation.  You might argue that we have freedom in Christ so of course we can watch R rated movies.  As long as we don’t act out what we see in them, what’s the harm in watching?  Or you might be on the other side and say, “of course it’s a sin to watch an R rated movie.

Garbage In – Garbage Out

The Bible describes our eyes as a lamp that gives light to the body.  When our eyes are healthy our body is filled with light.  The world, and the powers behind it, are actively working to conform your thinking to align with theirs.  We are called to be transformed by the renewing of our minds.  Matthew 6:22, Romans 12:2, Ephesians 5:1-16

Ephesians 5:1-16 “Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children. 2 Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us[a] and offered himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God. 3 Let there be no sexual immorality, impurity, or greed among you. Such sins have no place among God’s people. 4 Obscene stories, foolish talk, and coarse jokes—these are not for you. Instead, let there be thankfulness to God. 5 You can be sure that no immoral, impure, or greedy person will inherit the Kingdom of Christ and of God. For a greedy person is an idolater, worshiping the things of this world. 6 Don’t be fooled by those who try to excuse these sins, for the anger of God will fall on all who disobey him. 7 Don’t participate in the things these people do. 8 For once you were full of darkness, but now you have light from the Lord. So live as people of light! 9 For this light within you produces only what is good and right and true. 10 Carefully determine what pleases the Lord. 11 Take no part in the worthless deeds of evil and darkness; instead, expose them. 12 It is shameful even to talk about the things that ungodly people do in secret. 13 But their evil intentions will be exposed when the light shines on them, 14 for the light makes everything visible. This is why it is said,

“Awake, O sleeper,

rise up from the dead,

and Christ will give you light.”

Living by the Spirit’s Power

15 So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. 16 Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. 17″

  • Everything you do – that includes our entertainment choices, a good question to ask is would you keep watching the movie if Jesus came and sat down beside you?
  • Why – because we are his dearly loved children.  He is a perfect father.  He wants the best for us and knows what is best for us.
  • Obscene stories, foolish talk, course jokes – Are the movies I’m watching full of these, even if they’re not R rated, if this describes the movies I’m watching, that’s sinful.
  • Take no part –
  • Shameful to even talk about the things that ungodly people do in secret

Power of Media influences us

Romans 12:2 Romans 12:2  Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.

The world is working to conform us to its image. I’ll bet most of us don’t realize how much the way we think is actually impacted by media and entertainment.  There is an agenda.

Matthew 6:22 Your eye is like a lamp that provides light for your body. When your eye is healthy, your whole body is filled with light.

Commands in OT to the nation of Israel to tell the next generation about God’s deeds.

  • Passover meal symbolism

Lust

Any movie containing nudity, sex scenes, or even large amounts of sexual innuendo is sinful for us to watch.  Jesus told us that if we’ve looked upon a woman lustfully, we’ve already committed adultery in our heart.

Matthew 5:27-29“You have heard the commandment that says, ‘You must not commit adultery.’[j] 28 But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 So if your eye—even your good eye[k]—causes you to lust, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.

  • Soft porn is almost always the gateway to full on adult movies.

Vengeance is the Lord’s

Supporting shows that promote unbiblical themes can cause us to begin to think unbiblically.  Many shows today have a theme of revenge or vengeance.  God’s Word calls us to forgive. It is God’s responsibility to make right the wrongs. We’re called to be peacemakers

Foul language

Much like our eyes are the lamp of our body, our ears filter what’s going into our minds.  If we listen to large amounts of foul and coarse language, it won’t be long before we’re speaking the same way.

Philippians 4:8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.

Money Talks

If believers would draw a stronger line in the sand about the type of movies and shows they’d watch, you’d eventually see a shift in the kinds of movies and shows produced.  The entertainment industry is driven by profit and your money speaks volumes.

  • It’s not just “what” we watch, but “how much” we watch that we should consider.
  • Are we too busy entertaining ourselves to be on mission?

Talking Points:
  • The Bible describes our eyes as a lamp that gives light to the body.  When our eyes are healthy our body is filled with light.  The world, and the powers behind it, are actively working to conform your thinking to align with theirs.  We are called to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. 
  • Any movie containing nudity, sex scenes, or even large amounts of sexual innuendo is sinful for us to watch.  Jesus told us that if we’ve looked upon a woman lustfully, we’ve already committed adultery in our heart.  Matthew 5:27-29 
  • Supporting shows that promote unbiblical themes can cause us to begin to think unbiblically.  Many shows today have a theme of revenge or vengeance.  God’s Word calls us to forgive. It is God’s responsibility to make right the wrongs. We’re called to be peacemakers
  • Much like our eyes are the lamp of our body, our ears filter what’s going into our minds.  If we listen to large amounts of foul and coarse language, it won’t be long before we’re speaking the same way.  
  • If believers would draw a stronger line in the sand about the type of movies and shows they’d watch, you’d eventually see a shift in the kinds of movies and shows produced.  The entertainment industry is driven by profit and your money speaks volumes. 
Discussion:
  1. Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
  2. Before listening to the podcast, how would you have answered the question: “is it a sin to watch an R rated movie?
  3. Share a time you might have watched an R rated movie. How did it affect you? Would you have watched it if Jesus came and sat with you?
  4. Most theaters allow anyone over the age of 17 to watch R rated movies. In your opinion, is that an appropriate age? If not, would you say younger or older?
  5. Read Matthew 6:22. Many R rated movies contain nudity. Even if not sexual in nature, how does seeing that affect our brains?
  6. The podcast talked about themes in movies, such as vengeance, that go directly against what God wants for us. What are some other common themes in movies that do this very thing? How do these themes impact our view on the world?
  7. Read Phillipians 4:8. How does watching movies with large amounts of foul language, innuendos, etc. inhibit our ability to do this? What are some things that would enhance our ability to do this?