Is it a Sin to Drink Alcohol?
Talking Points:
- There is no place in scripture that makes a blanket statement forbidding someone from drinking alcohol. Solomon encouraged his readers to drink their wine with a happy heart (Ecclesiastes 9:7). Paul encouraged Timothy to drink a little wine for the sake of his stomach. 1 Timothy 5:23
- Drunkenness is clearly a sin. The bible is not ambiguous about it. In addition to its prohibition in Scripture, we see the consequences of drunkenness can be brutal. Proverbs 23:20-21
- Even if you stop short of getting drunk, if you have to have a drink to make it through the day, or if alcohol is your “go to” when dealing with stress or frustration, that is sinful. 1 Corinthians 6:12
- There are a lot of situations where drinking alcohol might be sinful, and at the very least, it would be unwise. 1 Timothy 3:2
Discussion:
- Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
- Before listening to the podcast, how would you have answered the question: “is it a sin to drink alcohol”?
- Growing up, what were you taught about alcohol? Was it right? Wrong?
- Read Proverbs 20:1. How have you seen alcohol negatively affect someone’s life?
- How can you lovingly help someone who is struggling with alcohol? What are some things you should not do?
- Regardless of the day you had, using alcohol as a vice is sinful. What are some effective alternative solutions that would actually honor God?
- Why is it important to regard your spouse in this matter, even if you don’t struggle with alcohol addiction?
Is it a Sin to Smoke Tobacco or Marijuana?
Talking Points:
- Today we’re continuing our “Is it a Sin?” series. We’re taking a look at different habits that if you grew up in the church, you may have always looked upon as sinful. We’re using the word of the Lord to help us answer the question: “is it a sin to smoke tobacco or marijuana?”
- There is a clear charge in scripture to be free from addiction. If you’re addicted to tobacco, it’s sinful.
- If your perspective is that any smoking is sinful because it’s harmful to your body and your body is a temple, you need to be consistent in applying that to other areas of your life, like diet and exercise.
- We are called to be on guard, alert, and of sober mind. Marijuana use dulls our senses, impairs our decision making, and limits our attention. This goes against God’s calling on our lives, particularly for us as men.
Discussion:
- Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
- Before listening to the podcast, how would you have answered the question: “is it a sin to smoke tobacco or marijuana?”
- When is the first time you can remember being around someone who smoked? How did it make you feel then?
- Many men see smoking cigars or pipes as a sign of “manliness” or even sometimes wealth. With the context of the podcast fresh in your mind, how do you think we as Christians should view tobacco smoking?
- Read 1 Peter 2:13. As marijuana laws become less and less strict, how should a Christian approach someone who smokes marijuana even if it’s not illegal? Do you feel we should help them move against it? Why or why not?
- Read 1 Corinthians 6:12. What are some practical steps we can take to receive the Lord’s freedom from addiction?
Is it a Sin to Gamble?
Talking Points:
- There is no explicit command in the Bible that says gambling is a sin. That doesn’t, however, mean that it isn’t sinful. Sin is not always a matter of doing something we shouldn’t, it’s also not doing something we should. James 4:17
- The Bible has much to say about trying to get rich quickly. Those who build wealth slowly and steadily are more likely to manage it well than those who come into money quickly. Proverbs 13:11, Proverbs 21:5
- We’re commanded in scripture not to be controlled by anything. Gambling can be highly addictive. 1 Corinthians 6:12
- It’s not just yourself you have to be concerned about. If you’re playing cards or betting over a round of golf, you also have to be aware of the person you’re gambling against. Is it a sin for them? Romans 14:13-14
Discussion:
- Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
- Before listening to the podcast, how would you have answered the question: “is it a sin to gamble?”
- Read James 4:17. How does this verse apply to today’s topic?
- The Bible warns us against envying our neighbors. What are some ways that jealousy can ruin a relationship?
- Read Proverbs 21:5. The statistics in the podcast seem to prove this verse. Why is it important to follow this verse when it comes to financial gain? What are the practical downsides of haste for wealth?
- Would you or have you ever indulged in a form of gambling? Even if you’re not addicted, why might it be a good idea to be wary?
- What are some ways you can help someone who might be addicted to gambling, and how does that differ from other addictions (alcohol, drugs, etc.)? How does it look similar?
Is it a Sin to Watch an R Rated Movie?
Talking Points:
- The Bible describes our eyes as a lamp that gives light to the body. When our eyes are healthy our body is filled with light. The world, and the powers behind it, are actively working to conform your thinking to align with theirs. We are called to be transformed by the renewing of our minds.
- Any movie containing nudity, sex scenes, or even large amounts of sexual innuendo is sinful for us to watch. Jesus told us that if we’ve looked upon a woman lustfully, we’ve already committed adultery in our heart. Matthew 5:27-29
- Supporting shows that promote unbiblical themes can cause us to begin to think unbiblically. Many shows today have a theme of revenge or vengeance. God’s Word calls us to forgive. It is God’s responsibility to make right the wrongs. We’re called to be peacemakers
- Much like our eyes are the lamp of our body, our ears filter what’s going into our minds. If we listen to large amounts of foul and coarse language, it won’t be long before we’re speaking the same way.
- If believers would draw a stronger line in the sand about the type of movies and shows they’d watch, you’d eventually see a shift in the kinds of movies and shows produced. The entertainment industry is driven by profit and your money speaks volumes.
Discussion:
- Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
- Before listening to the podcast, how would you have answered the question: “is it a sin to watch an R rated movie?
- Share a time you might have watched an R rated movie. How did it affect you? Would you have watched it if Jesus came and sat with you?
- Most theaters allow anyone over the age of 17 to watch R rated movies. In your opinion, is that an appropriate age? If not, would you say younger or older?
- Read Matthew 6:22. Many R rated movies contain nudity. Even if not sexual in nature, how does seeing that affect our brains?
- The podcast talked about themes in movies, such as vengeance, that go directly against what God wants for us. What are some other common themes in movies that do this very thing? How do these themes impact our view on the world?
- Read Phillipians 4:8. How does watching movies with large amounts of foul language, innuendos, etc. inhibit our ability to do this? What are some things that would enhance our ability to do this?
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- Is it a Sin to Watch an R Rated Movie?
- Is it a Sin to Gamble?
- Is it a Sin to Smoke Tobacco or Marijuana?
- Is it a Sin to Drink Alcohol?
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