Grief disrupts relationships - you may feel abandoned by some but embraced by others.

Talking Points:

  • Some friends will back away because they don’t know what to say or do.
  • You’re changing and you may have new or different responsibilities.
  • Expect to make new friends as you are creating a new normal. Proverbs 12:25
  • You may find that you want to be around people who understand your pain. 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Share about a friend who has really been there for you through grief. Share about a friend who has let you down.
  3. Why is it important to expect that some friendships will change? How does that expectation help you deal with the disappointments?
  4. What are some changes you’ve noticed in yourself since losing your loved one? What new responsibilities do you have now?
  5. Read Proverbs 12:25. How have new friendships helped to bolster you in your grief?
  6. Read 1 Thessalonians 5:11. How has it helped you to be around others who have experienced loss? How will you help someone else?
  7. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?