Healthy things grow. What makes the church healthy is grace - extending a gift without requiring anything in return.

Talking Points:

  • The Christian community should look different than other social groups because of grace. It’s hypocritical to receive grace and not to give it. Mt 18:32-33
  • Giving grace helps the whole church flourish and grow. Grace unlocks spiritual, relational, and emotional health. James 5:16
  • We won’t win people to a message of grace by using methods that are anti-grace. Christians are called to share good news, not to rant about how people ought to live. Col 4:5-6, 1 Peter 3:15-16
Discussion Questions:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. What would a grace-filled environment look like in a marriage? In a family?
  3. Read Hebrews 12:15. What does this verse present as the opposite of grace? Explain.
  4. Have you heard someone express negative views toward Christianity? What reasons did they give?
  5. Read 1 Peter 3:15-16. Can you give examples of how Christians have spoken with (or without) gentleness and respect to non-Christians?
  6. Do you agree or disagree: “God doesn’t call us to try to correct the behavior of society.” Explain your answer.
  7. Read Matthew 9:10-13. Why was Jesus’ behavior so scandalous to the Pharisees?
  8. Do you think Christians in our culture are more like Jesus, or more like the Pharisees? Why? Why is it important to remember that the Holy Spirit convicts, not us?
  9. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?