We didn’t invent the concept of marriage, it was God’s idea. His purpose and design for marriage is found in the Bible. If you want your marriage to be healthy and strong, follow the blueprints God provided.
Talking Points:
- Marriage is defined biblically as one man and one woman joined together for life. Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6
- At marriage you become “one” with your spouse. But this new “couples identity” doesn’t require you to forfeit your individual identities. Psalm 139:13-15
- Your family of origin had a major impact on who you are today. For some, “leaving and cleaving” may be a difficult task.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Read Genesis 2:24. What’s the significance of two people becoming one in marriage? What do you think that means practically?
- What happens when one or both are selfish in the marriage?
- Briefly describe your family of origin. What did your family teach you about marriage? Who do you think will struggle more with separating from their family? Explain.
- What do you think your “couple identity” will look like once you’re married? What hobbies will you share and what will you pursue individually?
- Read Matthew 19:4-6. What do you think about divorce? How have you seen it cause damage among couples and families?
- Make sure to take the Couple Survey (see workbook) before your next meeting.
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
