The next time your teenager rolls his eyes at you, stop to think before you react. Are you committed to both sides of parenting?
Talking Points:
- The “truth” side of parenting is giving guidance, setting boundaries, and disciplining. A human being’s natural bent is to rebel against this as a kid – and especially as a teen. Romans 3:23
- The “love” side of parenting is praising, listening, and encouraging. Love creates the environment that gradually opens the heart of the teenager to receive truth. Romans 2:4
- Dads must intentionally parent with truth and love. Failing to engage this way throughout the teenage years often leads to rebellious or dysfunctional kids. Ephesians 4:15
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Read Proverbs 13:24. Make your own list of the “truth” side of parenting. How did your parents do with this list?
- Make your own list of the “love” side of parenting. How did you parents do in this area when you were a teenager?
- What happens in a teenager’s head when they rarely feel loved? Give an example.
- What happens to the teenager who never gets disciplined? Give an example.
- Which side of parenting do you need to grow in as a dad? Explain.
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
