Humans are made in God’s image, but we’re also born with a sin nature. Learning to be self-aware will help Christians live out their new nature. Ezekiel 36:26
Talking Points:
- Self-aware people have the courage to articulate their faults and strengths. They’re secure enough to take a compliment or listen to a rebuke. Proverbs 2:3, Romans 12:3
- Self-aware people are humble and teachable when someone points out a weakness. They avoid sinful responses to sin and show a willingness to own their trash. Genesis 3:11-12, Proverbs 13:18
- Self-aware people have authentic prayer lives. Their transparency with God leads to transparency with others. Psalm 139:23-24
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- On a scale from 1-10, (10 is perfect) how self aware do you think you are? Explain. What would those closest to you say?
- Why is it frustrating to be in relationship with someone who doesn’t seem to understand themselves or how they come across to others?
- Read Proverbs 2:3. What does it look like to cry out for insight? Share a time a person shared an insight with you that had a positive impact on your life.
- Share two strengths and two weaknesses of your personality. Why is it important to be able to identify both?
- Read Proverbs 13:18. Why is it hard to hear criticism from others? Why is it valuable to receive correction?
- Review the sinful responses to sin. Which ones do you fall prey to most? How do these responses hold you back?
- Read Genesis 3:11-12. Adam and Eve made excuses rather than taking responsibility. Describe what a victim mentality looks like in a relationship. Describe what it looks like to take ownership in a relationship. Which one do you do more?
- Read Psalm 139:23-24. Why was this a brave prayer for David? Why does it take courage for us to identify the people and experiences that have hurt us in the past? How can this transparency help us to grow in EQ?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
