Parenting would be easy if the Bible had an instruction manual that guaranteed perfect kids. But, that's just not how it works.

Talking Points:

  • Proverbs are principles, not absolute promises. Proverbs 22:6
  • Parents can only do their part; kids will have to choose their own path. Ephesians 6:4
  • Parenting is a progression; make changes as your kids get older.
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Read Proverbs 22:6. Why is it important to distinguish between a promise and a principle?
  3. How do you feel about the idea that you can’t force your kids to follow God?
  4. What strategies do you already have in place to lead your kids on the path you want them to go?
  5. Read Ephesians 6:4. On a scale from 1-10, (1 being permissive and 10 being authoritative) rate your parenting style. How does that style help you relate to your kids? How does it hinder your relationship with your kids?
  6. Do you recognize the importance of adjusting as a parent? How have you adjusted your parenting style as your kids grow older?
  7. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?