The 30 scale helps you determine if you should be dating that particular person.
Talking Points:
- The 10 scale is about the physical which is really objectifying someone based on their looks. You need to be attracted to someone but that’s not the only thing you need.
- The 20 scale is about personality which is a better indicator of character and compatibility. You better actually like the person you may spend your life with someday!
- The 30 scale is about spirituality which is the most important part. Whoever you date will either double your relationship with Jesus or cut it in half. Matthew 22:37, Proverbs 13:20
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Up to this point, what standards have you used when dating someone? What are some lessons you’ve learned from those experiences?
- How important is the 10 scale to you when choosing to date someone? How does only caring about this scale lead to trouble?
- How important is the 20 scale to you? What are some traits that are important to you in a person you want to date?
- Read Matthew 22:37. How does this verse apply to dating? Why is it hard to be “all in” with Jesus if you’re dating an unbeliever?
- Read Proverbs 13:20. What does verse say to you? How is this true in a dating relationship?
- Why is it better to date with a purpose rather than just dating for dating sake?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
