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PursueGOD is a podcast-based discipleship library. Here's how to use our resources with your family, small group, or one-on-one mentoring relationship:
- Pick a series from our homepage. There's plenty to choose from!
- Each series contains multiple lessons. Click on the numbered tabs to open each lesson.
- Each lesson includes an audio podcast. Start by listening to the podcast on your own, before you meet as a group. Take notes as needed, and listen again if it helps. Consider starting a discipleship journal to track what you're learning.
- Meet with your family, group, or mentor to talk through what you learned from the podcast. Each lesson includes shownotes, talking points, and discussion questions. Click on the # tab to explore additional topics when you're done.
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- A leadership group in every church will have final authority to approve certain decisions. A healthy church, and one that is legally sound, will place this authority in the hands of a godly, qualified group of individuals rather than giving it to just one person.
- Generally, the board’s duties and authority fall into five categories: legal, financial, missional, executive (overseeing the Senior Pastor), and overall health of the church.
- The Bible allows for different types of church governance strategies. But every church has to figure out for itself the relationship between its governing board and the role of their elders. 1 Timothy 5:17
- Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
- What individual or group has final decision-making authority in your church?
- What are the strengths of how your current board is set up and how it works?
- What are some areas where that structure and operation need to be improved or altered?
- Summarize the legal responsibility of a governing board. What questions do you have about this?
- What practices does your board have in place to insure that church resources are managed effectively? What might be missing?
- In your perspective, what is the board’s role in defining and advancing your church’s mission?
- What are some advantages of having the Senior Pastor accountable to the board? What are some potential pitfalls?
- What are your board members doing well to enhance the overall well-being of the church? What could they do better?
- In this session we’ll speak directly to board members, because when members of the board understand their individual responsibilities, the board can fulfill its responsibility to govern the church well.
- Each board member wears three “hats” in the life of the Church: governance, volunteer, participant. Members of the board (both individually and as a group) should not be involved in the day-to-day management or operational decision-making of the church.
- Healthy board members respect four boundaries: no individual authority, no personal agendas, no breaking confidentiality, and no conflicts of interest.
- Read the talking points above as a group. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
- What are some reasons a board member should take off the “governance hat” when not directly engaged in board business?
- What kind of challenges can arise when board members confuse the “governance hat” and the “volunteer hat”?
- Speaking of governance, how familiar are you with your church’s foundational documents? Make a list of the key documents that govern your church. Where can you find them?
- Name some issues a board might face that qualify as “strategy.” Name some that would be considered “operations.” How can you tell the difference? Describe a time when your board got too involved in operations.
- What are the consequences when a board member seeks to assert individual authority in the life of the church? What might happen when more than one board member goes this route?
- How does a board member speak to or promote issues that seem, to him, to be important to the church, without advancing a personal agenda?
- How might you respond when someone in the church wants you to use your board position to advance his or her personal agenda?
- Is it ever appropriate to tell your spouse what was discussed or decided in a board meeting? If so, when?
- In a decision facing the board, what constitutes a conflict of interest? What can the board do to handle conflicts of interest with integrity? Why does it matter?
- The relationship between the board and the Senior Pastor is a carefully maintained balance between support and accountability. In different churches, the Senior Pastor may or may not be a member of the board, but the same balance still applies.
- A great board gives thoughtful attention to their Pastor’s inner life, not just his outward or institutional success. They care about his marriage, his relationships with the staff, and the character traits he is developing, recognizing that success in these areas flows out of a nurtured inner life.
- The board exercises accountability toward the Senior Pastor in three ways: through the decision-making process; through a regular performance evaluation process; and in the most rare and serious cases, by placing him under discipline or even removing him from his position.
- In one sense, the Senior Pastor works for the board, in that the board can hire and fire him and conduct his performance reviews. In a greater sense, the board works with the Senior Pastor as they get behind him and collaborate with him to refine and fulfill the church’s mission, based on the vision God has given him.
- Read the talking points above as a group. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
- Some boards never question the Senior Pastor. Others are constantly adversarial. On a scale of 1 (submissive) to 10 (adversarial), how would you rate your board’s relationship with your church’s Pastor?
- What are some ways the board can encourage the Pastor’s success in life as well as ministry?
- Describe why a Pastor needs wise counsel from the board, and how this can play out in practice.
- How does providing the Pastor with professional and personal resources communicate the board’s support? What happens when a board is not doing this?
- When it comes to balancing support with accountability, to which side does your personality tend to gravitate? How can you maintain a better balance?
- When the board is making decisions that govern the life of the church, how can this process be supportive of the Pastor? How can it provide needed accountability?
- Who provides a regular performance evaluation for your Pastor? Why is evaluation important to his personal and professional well-being? What do you think the board’s role should be?
- What do your church’s foundational documents say about how to discipline and/or remove a pastor? Do you think your process adequately protects the Pastor? Do you think it adequately protects the church?
- Would your Pastor say that the board has his back? Why or why not? Summarize ways that a board can be attentive to their Pastor’s spiritual, personal, and professional well-being.
- A great board goes beyond the nuts and bolts of the governing process to become a true team. Members really care about each other and invest in those relationships.
- A great board is united around the church’s mission and vision. Its governance is driven by the mission, not by the status quo, by comfort or familiarity, or by personal preferences.
- In a great board, every board member takes responsibility for the healthy functioning of the board. In board meetings (and outside those meetings if necessary), members are always ready to speak up.
- To become a great board, you will learn to avoid certain common pitfalls that will cause the board and the church a lot of trouble: poor record keeping, sloppy attention to finances, relationship dysfunction, and putting preference above mission.
- A few practical tools are a board member covenant, an annual board calendar, and a prime responsibility chart.
- Read the talking points above as a group. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
- What are some things you can do as a board to stay spiritually attuned and relationally healthy? Make a list.
- What is the mission of your church? How many of the board members can articulate it? What is one practical way you can evaluate whether it is being lived out personally?
- What are some ways to ensure your board is self-policing? Make a list.
- Name the four common pitfalls of a governing board. Which of these is your board most prone to fall into? Discuss.
- Is your board using any of the practical tools listed in this lesson? Talk about it.
- A meeting of the board is designed as a forum for four related purposes: to seek God; to get good information; to discuss issues from various perspectives; and ultimately, to commit the church to action.
- The board chairperson and the Senior Pastor are responsible to plan the agenda for each meeting and to prepare the board in advance. Board members are responsible to read through the materials they receive carefully and to comprehend the issues involved, then spend some time thinking and praying about those decisions.
- A board should try to achieve consensus on its actions, but unanimity is not necessarily the goal. It’s not wise to let one board member hold the rest of the board hostage based on his or her dissent.
- Watch how you behave and interact with others at the meeting itself. Speak up, without dominating the discussion. Listen to others patiently and with respect.
- Beyond having great meetings, you can be a great board member if you cultivate these five traits: emotional maturity, teamwork, investment, wise diplomacy, and continued growth.
- Read the talking points above as a group. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
- How often does your board meet? How do you establish the agenda for each meeting?
- What is the difference between consensus and unanimity? Why is consensus preferable?
- What words would you use to describe a typical board meeting at your church? Discuss.
- Discuss the five traits of healthy board members. Which one do you need to improve in your life?
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