Safeguard your marriage by being aware of the pitfalls of temptation.
Talking Points:
- To avoid temptation, never put yourself in a situation where temptation can occur without realizing you’re being tempted. Watch out for your interactions on social media, too. 1 Corinthians 6:18
- It’s important to be open and honest with your spouse. For some, this might mean allowing your spouse to have final say on who can and cannot be your friend from the opposite sex. Proverbs 28:13, 1 John 1:6-7
- If you’ve already crossed a boundary and need to find your way back, seek help from mentors, trusted friends who will tell you hard truth and hold you accountable, professional counselors, or a clergy member.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Do you have friends/family that have been through an affair? How did that come about and what was the result?
- Why do you think married people, despite their beliefs and values, end up cheating or getting divorced?
- Read 1 Corinthians 6:18. What does Paul tell us to do in this verse? What do you think it means to “flee”and what does that look like practically?
- Does your spouse have some friends that make you uncomfortable? Explain. Why is it a good strategy to give your spouse the final say when it comes to opposite-sex friendships?
- Read 1 John 1:6-7. Do you have some things you need to confess to your spouse? If you have already crossed a boundary into adultery or marital unfaithfulness, what steps do you need to take to make it right with your spouse? Who are trusted people who can help you in this process?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
