God doesn’t love you more if you obey him, and he doesn’t love you less if you don’t. That’s what makes grace so paradoxical in the Christian life.
Talking Points:
- As Christians, we are always dependent on God’s gracious help. The rules don’t suddenly change to make our relationship with God merit-based. Galatians 3:3, Colossians 2:6-7
- Receiving God’s grace changes how we think of ourselves. Now we’re free to be authentic instead of trying to fake perfection. Romans 8:1
- Receiving God’s grace changes how we live our lives. Biblical grace is a powerful motivator to live in a way that honors God. Titus 2:11-12, 2 Peter 3:18
Discussion Questions:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Think about the most important relationships in your life. How have you tried to seek the approval of those that already love and accept you? Why do you feel the need to continually prove yourself? Do you see this same dynamic in your relationship with God? Explain.
- Read Galatians 3:3. What are some ways that Christians typically “change the rules” for the Christian life after starting out by grace? How should we relate to God as Christians?
- Read Colossians 2:6-7. What pattern does this reveal for how to live the Christian life? What does it look like in practice to grow deeper roots?
- Read Romans 8:1. What are the voices that whisper condemnation to you, in the past or present? What is your response? In what ways should grace change how we see ourselves? What does it look like to live authentically for Jesus?
- Read 2 Peter 3:18. How is grace something that we can grow in?
- Read Titus 2:11-12. If God loves us unconditionally, why should we live to honor him?
- What are some other methods (besides grace) that Christians typically use to motivate godly living? Evaluate these methods.
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
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