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Everyone is seeking the approval of someone, but the sooner you understand why and how it works, the faster you'll find freedom. Especially in sports.

Talking Points:

  • Approval-seeking starts for girls all the way back in grade school. It’s easy for your identity to get wrapped up in athleticism, especially if you’re good at sports.
  • Female athletes can look for approval from their parents, coaches, friends, and boyfriends. 
  • Seeking the approval of God is far more motivating for Christian athletes, and there’s no fear in that. Deuteronomy 7:7-9

Quote This:

“For me, I was less human because I became all about what I could give, whether physically or emotionally…. There’s no genuine love and care for a person in that.”

Discussion Questions:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. When did you first realize you were good at sports? Which sports were your favorites?
  3. Who did you most seek approval from in grade school? Junior high? High school? College?
  4. How do you typically react when you have a bad game? Do you still seek out approval or affirmation?
  5. “Knowing my identity in Christ freed me up to play my best.” Why do you think this happens? How can you apply it to your life?
  6. Read Deuteronomy 7:7-9. On what basis does God approve of his followers today? Where do you stand with God?
  7. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?