Men – Leading Like Jesus
Talking Points:
- A servant’s heart flows from a position of authority. Because Jesus was secure in his rank, he was able to wash the feet of his disciples. John 13:3-4
- Servant-leaders expect their followers to become servants, too. Jesus didn’t lower himself in order to raise up selfish leaders. John 13:12-14
- The blessing of God is promised to men who will serve like Jesus. Selfish leaders won’t gain the advantage in the long run. John 13:15-17
Discussion:
- Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
- Have you ever seen a leader who steps on people? What happened?
- Read John 13:3-4 and John 13:12-14. In what ways did Jesus exemplify an “upside-down” principle of leadership? Give an example.
- What expectations do your superiors have for you? Explain.
- What expectations do you have for the people who work or serve under you? Explain.
- Read John 13:15-17. Are you looking to empower the people around you and underneath you to be servant-leaders? Explain
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
Men – Stepping Out Like Peter
Talking Points:
- Jesus puts his followers into situations that call for courage. God wants to stretch us. Matthew 14:24-25
- Man’s first instinct is to try harder in the face of a trial. But true bravery finds its source in Christ’s presence, not in man’s strength. Matthew 14:27
- Prayer should be our first response, not our last resort. Before you step out in faith, bring it to Jesus in prayer. Matthew 14:28-29
- The key to victory is the object of our focus. Keep your eyes on Jesus, not on the storm that’s going on around you. Matthew 14:30-31
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Is it true that following Jesus means we won’t face trials? Explain.
- What trials have you faced in your life or are you facing right now?
- Read Matthew 14:27-29. Do you often step out before you pray, or do you pray before you step out? Why is it important to seek God before we step out?
- Read Matthew 14:30-31. “The key to our victory is the object of our faith.” Explain this statement. How have you seen this principle at work in your life or in others’ lives?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
Investigating Faith Like Thomas
Talking Points:
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What are some doubts you’ve struggled through in your faith? Or what doubts are you working through presently?
- Read John 20:25. What is the biggest difference between doubt and disbelief?
- Read John 20:26-27. Is it okay to be skeptical of religious claims? Why or why not?
- Will we ever have all of our questions answered? Explain.
- Read John 20:28-29. What is the difference between reason and faith? Why is it important for Christians to have a reasonable faith?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
Men – Pressing on Like Paul
Talking Points:
- The pursuit of God calls for a radical commitment. Godly men throughout history have risked it all for the gospel. Philippians 3:10-11
- The pursuit of God is a journey, not a destination. True discipleship takes grit and a growth mindset. Philippians 3:12
- The pursuit of God is forward-looking, not caught up in the past. No skeleton in your closet can disqualify you from a pursuit of God. Philippians 3:13-14
- Real men of God back up their words with their actions. Jesus is done with men who look the part but don’t live the part. Philippians 3:18-20
Discussion Questions:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Read Philippians 3:10-11. Do you share the same ideals as Paul? Explain.
- Read Philippians 3:12. In what ways is the Christian life focused on the journey? On what ways is it focused on the destination? Explain.
- Read Philippians 3:13-14. How can we often struggle with our pasts? How can we overcome looking back and instead look forward?
- Read Philippians 3:18-20. In what ways are you not backing up your words (or the image you present to others) with your actions? How can you start changing today?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
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