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Let's be honest: men are weird. So a couple of guys have some advice to help sort things out.
Key Points:
- Going to the movies for a date isn’t to avoid conversation.
- Guys love when girls speak words of encouragement to them.
- It can be good to encourage your significant other to be childlike, and have the faith of a child.
- Guys appreciate when girls let them care about their appearances too.
Quote This: “Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace.” Ephesians 4:2-3
Talk About It
- What is your initial reaction to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Was there a thing from the video that surprised you? Have you ever thought about unspoken wishes or concerns between genders before?
- Can it be difficult to speak encouraging words to someone, specifically a significant other? Why, or why not?
- How can guys benefit from being childlike? What do you think is a good balance between maturity and childlike faith?
- These four points have a lot to do with communication. Read James 1:19. How can good communication help to build a healthy relationship?
- How can accepting that a guy wants to care about his appearance help the dynamics of a relationship?
- Read Romans 12:9-10. Why should we bother to know these things about our significant others? How does it help our relationships?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
