Don't let other responsibilities or other people get in the way of cultivating your relationship with your spouse.

Talking Points:

  • 4 Practical tips to keep love in your marriage:
    • Love the Lord together. Do things like pray together and read the Bible. The closer you grow to God, the closer you’ll grow together. 
    • Out-serve one another. Always be looking for ways to serve and uplift. 
    • Value each other. Value each other’s opinions, accomplishments, roles, and even quirks. Hold each other in high esteem. Proverbs 5:18
    • Everyone else comes second.  Set aside time for each other each day and guard it well. 1 Corinthians 7:14
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. What is the best advice you ever received for having a successful marriage? Why does this advice stand out to you?
  3. How well are you keeping God at the center of your marriage? What needs to improve? Explain.
  4. How do you currently serve your spouse? How can you improve?
  5. Read Proverbs 5:18. What is one thing your spouse does that makes you feel important to them?
  6. Read 1 Corinthians 7:14. Holiness means “to be set apart.” How are you setting your marriage apart from other relationships in your life? How can you improve in this area?
  7. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?