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God's word teaches that both kids and parents have responsibilities toward one another.

Key Points:

  • Kids should obey their parents because it makes God happy. Colossians 3:20
  • Parents should treat kids right so they don’t push them away from Christ. Colossians 3:21
  • The most important thing an imperfect family can do is to pray for each other. Colossians 4:2

Quote This:

Colossians 3:20-21 Children, always obey your parents, for this pleases the Lord. Fathers, do not aggravate your children, or they will become discouraged.

Talk About It
  1. What is your initial reaction to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. How you ever thought about what makes God happy? Explain.
  3. Why do you think families are such a big deal to God?
  4. Why do you think it is important for children to obey their parents?
  5. What happens in families where children don’t follow the directions of their parents?
  6. Read Psalm 127:3 and share what you think about this verse.
  7. List some qualities of a really good parent. Explain
  8. Read Colossians 3:20-21. Memorize this passage as a family. Teens, what are you going to do to honor your parents more? Parents, what are you going to stop doing that only frustrates your teens?  
  9. What will you continue to do to make Jesus a part of your family life?
  10. Write a personal action step based on this conversation.