If you have a willful child and you feel like the relationship has become defined by wins or losses, fatigue, and guilt, then this topic is custom built for you.
Talking Points:
- Discipline only for willful acts of defiance. Kids will be kids, and parents should let them make mistakes. Coming down hard on strong-willed kids for kid-appropriate behavior – even if it is annoying to you – will backfire in the end.
- A strong-willed child always wants to win, and they’ll try to wear you down. Don’t let it happen. You’re the parent. Don’t give in.
- Make sure that your battle plan is always the same. Don’t grow weary in your parenting battles. If you’re consistent over time, it’ll be worth it in the end. Galatians 6:9
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Have you ever disciplined your kid for something other than willful defiance? Explain.
- Share a time when your kid just wouldn’t give up. What did you do in the end? Who won?
- Which of the three points to ponder will be the most difficult for you to apply? Explain.
- What are some roadblocks to consistent parenting for you?
- Read Galatians 6:9. How do you think your kid’s stubbornness might be used for good in the future?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
Adapted from the Parenting Great Kids podcast.
