We hear many voices trying to tell us who we are. But what is true?
Talking Points:
- Myth #1: You are defined by what you do. This person thinks that if they aren’t on top or they aren’t perfect, then they aren’t worth anything. Ephesians 2:8-9
- Myth #2: You are defined by what you look like. These are the people who look in the mirror and decide that if they aren’t the best looking then they aren’t worth anything. Psalm 139:13-18
- Myth #3: You are defined by who you know. These are the people pleasers. They base their identity on the number of friends they have or how well known they are in their social circles. Galatians 3:26-29
- Myth #4: You are defined by what you’ve done. They believe they will never be worth anything because they have messed up in the past. 2 Corinthians 5:17
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- List out the 4 identity myths. Which one do you struggle most with, and why?
- Read Ephesians 2:8-9. How does this bust the first myth? Why is it important to know that we can’t earn God’s love and forgiveness?
- Read Psalm 139:13-18. How does this bust the second myth? What are some of your unique qualities that others appreciate about you?
- Read Galatians 3:26-29. How does this bust the third myth? How do you fall prey to the pressures of social media? How can you break free from the pressures that come with it?
- Read 2 Corinthians 5:17. How does this bust the fourth myth? You are a new creation in Christ. How does this truth challenge the shame you feel about past mistakes?
- “The story you tell with your life is going to be dictated by the voices you listen to.” Which voices tell you lies about yourself? Identify them (name the people, movies, etc). How can you limit their negative influence on your life?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
