Looking to grow in your personal prayer life? Try this four-step method to bring a simple, biblical structure and focus to your prayer time.

Talking Points:

  • P=Praise. Start by praising God: telling him who he is to you and what you are thankful for. This will get your heart in the right place as you begin connecting with God in prayer. Psalm 100:1-5
  • R=Repent. Next, move into a short time of repentance: admitting to God your faults and allowing him to convict you of the things that are wrong in your life. This is the natural response of a sinner in the presence of a sinless God. Isaiah 6:1-5
  • A=Ask. Prayer requests are what most people think of when they envision prayer, and that’s the third step in this method. Paul teaches us that we should confidently present our requests to God. Philippians 4:6
  • Y=Yield. The final step is to spend some time yielding to God: stopping and quieting your heart to hear from God. This is probably the most difficult step in prayer, but it’s worth the effort to make it a habit.

[Related: Prayer – What? Why? When? Where? Who?]

Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. What are some helpful things you’ve learned about prayer? Have you ever tried the P-R-A-Y method? Which step seems the hardest to you?
  3. Read Psalm 100:1-5. Make a list of the things you can praise God for in your life, past and present.
  4. Read Isaiah 6:1-5. Describe Isaiah’s response to God. Why do you think he responded like this?
  5. What is the benefit of repentance in your prayer life? How will confessing things to God affect your relationships in life?
  6. Read Philippians 4:6-7. What are the commands in this verse? What are the promised benefits? Discuss.
  7. What does it mean to “yield” to God in prayer? Try to list some practical steps for developing this habit in your prayer life.
  8. Read Luke 18:9-11. Talk about the irony of the Pharisee’s prayer. What is the true heart of prayer?
  9. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?