Ryan is a real-life guy who uses the pursueGOD.org resources to mentor a few guys at work. Here's what he's learned so far.
Talking Points:
- It’s not as awkward as you think. Just send a link and then follow up with a conversation.
- You don’t have to call it mentoring. That might be weird, so don’t call it that.
- It doesn’t take Ned Flanders. The pastor types don’t have that many friends anyway.
- It’s better than crap advice. When I don’t use the tool, the conversation can often become hopeless.
- People want this. If you really genuinely share the truth in love, people want more of it.
- You don’t need all the answers. The resources do a good job with truth, but it’s more about love anyway.
- You don’t always need a video. The tools will help you gain wisdom and confidence to speak truth – even without the tools.
- Mentoring is messy. You might feel like you’re in over your head, but don’t give up.
- It’s the fastest way to grow. Foundations Truth 3 is not just a theory; it actually happens when you mentor.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What was the last thing you did that developed you spiritually? Was it recurring or a one-time experience? How long did it last?
- Have you taken Mentor Training? If so, what was your initial reaction?
- Which of the 9 points above have you ever experienced personally in mentoring (if any)? Explain.
- Which of the points above were most surprising for you to hear? Why?
- What points would you add to the list from your own experience with mentoring?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
