Here’s Why Gossip is Toxic

Talking Points:

• Gossip is when we speak to someone who is neither a part of the problem or a part of a solution about someone who is not present.
• There are 7 reasons why gossip is so poisonous:
  • It feeds our own sense of superiority as we feel good about ourselves at the expense of someone else.
  • It sows distrust amongst your team or family. After all, what might you be saying about them when they’re not around.
  • It harms your spiritual witness. We should care about others and treat them in a manner that honors Jesus.
  • It destroys your integrity. You can’t be honest and fair while also being a gossip.
  • It harms or ends relationships because gossip is hurtful and destructive.
  • It ruins reputations when you gossip about someone, especially if you are speaking untruths about someone else.  
  • It will come back to hurt you. There are always consequences when gossip occurs.
• 3 ways to avoid gossip:
  • Determine if what you’re doing is gossip. If the person you’re talking to has no role to play in problem or solution, stop.
  • Stop it when you hear it.  Redirect the conversation or tell the person who is gossiping that you’re uncomfortable with the direction of the conversation.
  • Be an advocate. Stick up for the person who is being gossiped about.